What is Before You Marry?

Before You Marry is an online resource for women who need advice, tips, and help with their future marriage.

Why should I read Before You Marry?

Because you’re curious about what I’m going to say.

No, seriously. Because after your wedding day, no one prepares you for the ups and downs that is known as marriage. You need someone that will help you understand the good, the bad, and the FUGLY of marriage (or any relationship for that matter)…before you marry.

“It’s better to be prepared for an opportunity than have an opportunity and not be prepared.” ~Whitney M. Young, Jr.

Consider this your divorce-prevention guide. It’ll calm your nerves and help you get clear about issues that affect every bride-to-be or wife.

Who’s Behind Before You Marry?

Me, Shay Banks. I’m the crazily opinionated writing diva. I suffer from Foot-In-Mouth-Syndrome, so if you get offended by what I write, I apologize now.

I love helping women solve their relationship problems, find their confidence, and live a life that they are so frickin’ proud of that they leap out of bed every morning. I LOVE what I do because I believe ecstatically happy women create an ecstatically happy and peaceful world. We are what we create, and when it comes to relationships, some of us are doing a helluva job at creating devastation and destruction.

I’ve had enough of seeing women in bad relationships, let’s go out and make some new unconditionally loving ones by getting over our issues and our need for perfection!